For your convenience, most commonly asked questions are answered right here.
Are you licensed to perform wedding ceremonies?
Yes, I am an ordained minister and wedding officiant in good standing and am licensed to perform weddings anywhere in the United States.
What is your affiliation or denomination?
I am a Non-Denominational Wedding Minister and Officiant, allowing me to provide the most versatile service to my couples. I am comfortable in both religious and non-religious settings and acknowledge and welcome all faiths and beliefs. I am a proud supporter of the LBGT community.
How would you describe yourself as an officiant?
I truly find that my strength is in connecting with all personalities and making individuals feel comfortable and cared for. I also have the ability to make audiences laugh, smile, and enjoy themselves. The wishes of my couples are always my top priority. I pay meticulous attention to all the little details to make sure your ceremony is absolutely perfect, creating a celebration of love and togetherness. I am energetic, but also calm and soothing. I am very patient, and truly strive to create that dream ceremony you are looking for.
What types of ceremonies can you perform?
Ceremonies include: Renewal of wedding vows, commitment ceremonies, as well as situations where the bride and groom may have previously eloped and are already legally married, but want to have a formal wedding ceremony in front of their family and friends. Short and sweet civils, seriously religious ceremonies, interfaith weddings that combine the traditions of several different faiths, ceremonies that include children, just to name a few… and of course, the most popular… where the bride and groom want a lighthearted, customized ceremony that reflects their personalities with a touch of spirituality, grace and humor.
How far in advance should we contact you about reserving our wedding date?
The further in advance that you contact me the better, however, I always welcome short notice and last-minute weddings and am happy to be of service if I am not already booked.
What are the steps to retaining you as our officiant?
First, simply fill out the Contact Us form on our website, at which time I will be able to tell you if I am available to officiate your ceremony. If you do decide to retain me as your officiant, I require 1/2 payment in advance to “officially” reserve the date and time.
What if you aren’t available to officiate due to an unexpected emergency?
Although this has never happened, I am happy to provide you with referrals to other Officiants who are similar to me in personality and approach. I will be sure to find a substitute to officiate your wedding on your special day.
Do you offer wedding packages?
We provide a-la-carte services, which you can personally select and design your own customized wedding package. Please see our Officiating Services page for more details.
How long is the wedding ceremony?
It’s completely up to you. My average ceremony runs about 15-20 minutes, but will depend a lot on what you would like to include. You are always welcome to include readings or songs done by friends or family members, special acts of celebration such as a Sand Ceremony or Rose Exchange, in which case, the ceremony would of course, be a bit longer. I am very much about my couples and am happy to create a ceremony that really reflects the two of you.
Can we write our own vows?
Absolutely! Your vows are your words of love and commitment to each other, and are one of the most important aspects of your ceremony. We also have hundreds of examples of set vows that you may choose from. A simple read and repeat can also be performed during this part of the ceremony.
Can we include our children in the ceremony?
Of course! There are a number of ways to include your children in your wedding ceremony. The Family Sand Ceremony is a wonderful and fun way to include your children, without putting too much pressure on them or making them feel awkward. You can also incorporate vows that you say to your children, committing to love them as their parents, and even present them with a gift like a necklace, ring or bracelet.
What do you usually say during the ceremony?
There are a number of ceremonies and vows to choose from, which are featured in our Ceremony and Vows packet. I don’t have any specific requirements on what needs to be said during the ceremony. That is completely up to the two of you. When you retain me as your officiant, you can be assured that your ceremony will be exactly the way you want. I stick to the script that we have chosen which will help you relax and thoroughly celebrate your day.
What do you usually wear at the ceremony?
My wardrobe varies, depending on the location and weather, however I always dress neatly and conservatively in black so as not to detract from the two of you. l can wear formal attire, custom colors, any theme wear you would like me to be in. I will make every effort to adjust my wardrobe accordingly (i.e. a Hawaiian wedding, beach wedding, etc.). Just let us know what your desires may be for my wardrobe for your day.
What about the rehearsal?
My attendance at your rehearsal, although commonly requested, is not required. My role is very straightforward. For more formal weddings, the wedding coordinator at your venue or even our day-of planner can take care of getting everyone in place and ready to walk down the aisle. Beach weddings or small elopements do not require a rehearsal, due to their more casual approach. I will arrive at your ceremony one hour prior so I can take care of any last minute details or direction that needs to be made.
Where and when do we purchase our Marriage License?
You must obtain your Marriage License at any County Clerk’s office in the county and state that you desire to get married. Simply research contact numbers for your county that you desire to be married in and investigate any necessary information on costs and processes for obtaining your marriage license. Each state is different, so please make sure you understand the requirements of your state. You should start this process about 60 days out from the ceremony date.
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